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forgiveness friendship

Were you already times really hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend?
How did you react?

When I was about 5 or 6, moved to the street where I live at that time a woman with her Son. He was about my age.
On the day she moved in, my mother said to me: "Ollie, you've already seen that there's a new kid moved into our street? Go, get out and play with him. "
Well, I was very shy and I do not dare correct. Since my mother gave me my favorite car and sent me out into the street. When I came out, the new boy next door was a bit further up the road. It took a while before we have addressed us. I also do not know more precisely, how it happened - I think we just started to play together.
any event has developed from this encounter in a very short time a great friendship between us and David (the boy was called) and I quickly became best friends. Years went by and there was hardly a day that we have made do with one another. Since David was a few months older than me, he was a class above me. But since we had the same school, we always went to school together. And after school we have been barely seen alone.
When I was 13 or 14, loved David and I once met a classmate of him. (I think His name was Ralph??) We have played computer because David arose at once and gave me a crazy. It was not very strong. Still, he hit me with her hand in his face and in that moment something had broken.
Our friendship!
I still do not know why he did it - we had not fought, it is nothing happened. I think he just wanted ahead of Ralf (or what was his name) off ne cool number.
From then on, I'm alone again went to school. We have not done more with each other. David was still living next to us almost 2 years, but actually we had nothing to do with each other. I told him was the simple not forgive. And he has never approached me again - maybe it was him in retrospect, simply unpleasant.

Jesus is something very similar happened. He was betrayed in its most difficult period by one of his friends. If you want to read the story but even after (John 13.36-38 and then John from 18.15 to 27).

Maybe you so what ever happened to like.
But as for me at Jesus so fascinating is how he's handled it.
He forgives him, without him making any accusations.
It is simply not among them.

I could not then at David. Today I have forgiven him a long time but tell him I could never, for I have no idea where he now lives. I even have time ne time trying to find him, but it did not work out today.

important As for Jesus, it is that we forgive each other is clear in Matthew 18.21-35. Read through once, is really interesting. But now ...

The task:

"Apologize to someone you have hurt
...und / or ...
forgive someone who hurt you."

(write a letter, email or call. It is best, however, if you dare to do it personally)